What's your opinion of a man who bails out on pregnant girlfriend and his unborn baby?

He is trying to get out of paying child support. His family condones his behavior of a 22 year old man. I asked the father of the baby for some financial help with my copays and he hasn't given me penny and thinks prenatal meds are a waste. I was told I never could get pregnant due to my personal health issues.

What's your opinion of a man who bails out on pregnant girlfriend and his unborn baby?
When the baby is bron go to child support office and file against him. You want to know what I think of men like this? Well, let me tell you----- they are nothing but losers that do not deserve to have children. If he does not want anything to do with this child then child support can help you get his parental rights taken from him. If he isn't going to be in this babies life anyway, then I say, Do not give him the priviledge of being anything but a sperm donor. Good Luck. You can do this without this man. As far as his family, the Apple Never Falls Far From The Tree.
Reply:make sure you hold on to any and all of your receipts. Any copays, medicine, formula, ect that is for your child. That way when u do go to court, which u should, u have proof of everything u have paid for that child.
Reply:he's scared, unresponsible and won't face up to his child
Reply:he is a major piece of s**t
Reply:I think it's a good thing that some states require men to pay for prenatal care too. I suggest you contact your local welfare office to find out if that is possible.





I think the man is a total ***- but if he was under the impression you could not get pregnant he could just be very put off by the whole situation. I would want to see how he behaves once he sees the child and starts paying support.
Reply:My opinion is that he needs to be shot, hung up and have his balls cut off..lol





But, now that I have that out of my system, take that jerk to court and have the judge deal with him.
Reply:In my opinion, he may be 22 years old but is not a man. If he will not step up, your only recourse is to get proof and go to court.
Reply:you don't need that kind of man.. and your baby certainly doesn't need that kind of father.
Reply:Personally, he's not a man you would want around your child. So good riddance! He's not worthy of such a beautiful gift!
Reply:Prenatal meds are vital for a healthy baby. Contact a lawyer, or social services, since it appears you're tight on money. You can't get pregnant on your own and you shouldn't have to pay for it alone! Good luck to you. Whatever you do, don't back down, that's what the coward wants!
Reply:Not much. Make sure you file for support as soon as the baby is born.
Reply:I think he's not a man. A real man would never leave the mother of his child in her time of need.
Reply:Like someone else said he is not man. All of that because he didn't want to pay child support!SMH I will pray for you ansd your baby.
Reply:you're better off without him. love your baby and forget about him. trying to get money out of him will be a heartache for you forever unless you just let him go.
Reply:He's a piece of trash. He should be sticking with you and the baby not ditching you two. But hell if he's like that you two are way better off without him. Just forget his ***..........his loss.





Im sorry but that aint a man. Thats a coward who cant face the fact that he got a girl pregnant.





Take his sorry butt to court and then move on without im and raise the baby. He may be 22 but mentaly he's 5.
Reply:I hate to tell you, but he doesn't owe you a dime until the baby is proven to be his. I'm afraid it is your cost. That is just the way it is when parents-to-be aren't married.





I also think he is very angry and probably thinks you lied to him that you couldn't get pregnant. That's why I tell guys that unless she has no uterus, she can get pregnant, so use condoms. You are just as culpable so don't go blaming all on him.





If you need prenatal meds, go to Walgreens and buy some. 100 tabs is $10. You don't need the prescription ones unless you have specific health problems and at your age, that is unlikely.
Reply:I know its hard and I know how you feel. Believe me you really don't want to know what my views are on this. I have a 2yr old son wityh my ex husband I am now 24yrs old and am 16 weeks pregnant with my ex bf's kid! Yes I said EX, he pressed for me to get an abortion but when I wouldn't he left and wants nothing to do with me or the kid! He is 32, I guess they never grow up sometimes. Ya Know? Oh yeah by the way he has a 5 year old son with his ex that he does everything for and I got preggo on the BC pill!
Reply:The man is a low-life. Take him to court to get your child support (search for a law firm that will do pro bono work or a firm that specializes in social services). He may be legally required to pay until the child is 18. Good luck to you.
Reply:You needc to screw this guy and get a man that will help you and your baby lead a productive life
Reply:wow thats messed up i would bring him to court and make him pay child support that or he will be running from the cops!!!!!! cause if you dont pay your child support then they take away your lisence!!!! Kick his A**
Reply:He is a scumsucking bastard
Reply:I really don't think you're all that responsible either. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get your act together. They aren't going to help, so get over it. Suck it up and move on.
Reply:He's an idiot. When you have your ultrasound (if your not still together) send him a copy of the picture and the DVD, then make him come crawling back, not that you would "want" him back. Otherwise, just get over the dirtbag and love your baby. Don't dwell too much on him or that would psychologically hurt your baby, even though she/he has not been born yet.
Reply:I actually went through the same thing, you can file for child support before the child is born, it's best to start the process now and when the child is born the court will petition a paternity test to prove he is the father. Also apply for help with the social services office for medicaid, because whatever the dr's bill is, the state will make him pay them back after they take care of your medical bill.
Reply:My daughter is 18 years old and going thru the same thing.Her ex-fiancee stayed around for about a week after he found out and when his parents told him they wanted nothing to do with it he dumped her. He will also be 22 years old. Guys like this arent worth having around.You can take care of this child yourself and hopefully with the help of your family. My daughter had to get on medicaid for medical insurance. As far as support goes ,where we live in indiana, the county prosecuters office can help establish paternity and court order support.(usually after the baby is born with dna testing)
Reply:that happend to me after a 2 years relationship... He left me, and didn't gave me a penny in my entire pregnancy, my parents help me a lot and my friends... I'm living with my parents, I have the health plan of the goverment, and my baby is 10 months and 1/2 and he has only giving me $120, I only wanted him in my daughters life and didn't wanted his money, but he did even asked for her, only have seen her twice and always say he is going to give me money but he never do it.. I put him on a childsupport case, a month ago and I feel better becuase my baby really needs the money, I'm not working. And it hurts to see pictures of him, my friends tell me they see him partying and me in my house taking care of the baby..... So believe there are a lot of words you can say that will describe that situation... but I haven't found one that will have alll the meanings and thoughts that I have about him.... Good Luck, take care of you and that baby!!!